In the post-retirement phase of life, some people strive for change once again. They may also want to prevent loneliness and desire support. A shared apartment can make sense - with caution!

People aged 65 and older sometimes live alone and perhaps in a property that has become too large. Some would also like to start a new chapter in their lives in old age. They would like more human contact and personal support. Still others would like to live in a mixed-generational environment. A shared apartment seems to be a good solution. But it won't be quite that simple, summarizes Jürg Zulliger on "newhome". Older people usually have individual demands and their own ideas. To satisfy the needs of everyone involved, good framework conditions, a lot of empathy and openness to change are necessary, he says.

Good planning and preparation are important

Zulliger lists various points to consider for such an undertaking. First, it requires good planning and a lot of initiative. Some people start planning and preparing for this stage of their lives too late. It goes without saying that someone who wants to take this step should still be in good health.

Retreat options are needed

Many people like to live together with others and seek social interaction. But privacy is important, especially outside of family structures. Flat sharing partners in particular need sufficient privacy and the opportunity to withdraw.

It cannot work without rules

Even in a shared apartment for seniors, living together needs to be organized and certain rules need to be established and followed. So that there are no arguments about who cleans, cleans, does the laundry or goes shopping.

Conflicts should be addressed openly

Wherever people come together, conflicts arise. To resolve disagreements, you should be as open as possible about them and, discuss them. It is certainly an advantage if you enjoy communicating with other people.

Idealism is also part of it

Shared living is a bit of an experiment. It requires a lot of tolerance and a good dose of idealism, cautions Zulliger. And he advises: "The flat sharing partners must be willing to contribute and support others - without expecting anything in return or even money."